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Relationship and Age



Think you are mature and capable of making your own decisions, while you also might be thinking about dating someone who has an age difference than you. In toady’s world it is not a big deal unless you make it one. Age is a number for most people, while maturity and personality count more. I’m not talking 5 years gap, but rather a 10-year one. Are people really in love with eachother?



Age difference relationships are more common today. A women in her 20’s use to find men in their 30’s 40’s and so not attractive but this has all changed. Lots of people today don’t look, dress or act their age, which sometimes could take a role. Most of us want a partner who is independent and can provide for him or her. A man or women that is older usually has a home and a good job therefore they may attract the unexpected.

Most young people may want an older person because they may not want kids, you don’t party, and financial benefits. Celebrities sometimes can be role models to us, Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher for example; people look at this and say there is nothing wrong with it. Life is short as we say and if we meet someone we like we are going to take the opportunity and not let age get to us. According to Astrology people that date the same signs are much more compatible, and even more when there is a yearly difference.

In this case women also mature allot faster than men do, and when girls are raised into horrible families and abandoned by their father they feel subconscious when searching for a man and tend to look for an older one. Women also think that if they get pregnant then an older man will take care of the baby. Where as a younger man might walk out on them or tell them to get an abortion. According to Yahoo Answers older men are easier to talk with and compromise with.



Age difference can bring up some strenuous problems in the relationship. Your family may not approve of it, other people will constantly look you at, and time may also drive them apart. Trust question will soon come up whether you are an older man or women you want to know your not going to be cheated on. The younger partners may also wonder if they are being used for looks or attention. You need to think about your future as time passes do you want to take care of you second set of grandparents? Could you live alone if your loved one passes early? What if I get pregnant with an older man on accident? All of these are questions you should discuss with the person before you jump into anything. Some people say that if you truly want to know if your man is good look at how he treated his past girlfriend’s ands his reputation. When dating an older person never try to control them, many feel this and it leads to separation. Some Age gap relationships can also lead to verbal or physical abuse. If you find that sex, money and looks are the only things you have in common with this person it’s more likely that your relationship will not last t or be put to a challenge. There has to be more in someone to make you want him or her and appreciate him or her. Some thing’s you should know about someone before you dating them are (1) Finances, weather they have wealth or if they are very protective or generous of it. (2) Children, Do they have or want any avoid hurting your mate and try to make a choice to continue a relationship with them.

(3) Death, The day will come when we all need to leave, are you going to be included on eachother insurance policy, Don’t leave children or family with financial bills.



In my opinion marrying or dating an older person is ok, sometimes age is a number sometimes it is not. I believe 5-6 years is ok but any higher women or men should feel as if they are dating grandparents or their little sibling. Allot has to do with the phrase “age is just a number” how big can that number be though. It like saying I have to have a hot man or women to be cool. In today’s world “young” is the new hot. We ask ourselves why don’t people get an uck feeling when they look at an older person? I do think allot of women date older because younger men are immature and think life is a joke, but not all women are mature themselves either. Men I think date younger women for attention purposes and they feel they are young. Also if you at a person that is underage there are consequences I have to disagree with this unless no sex is involved, because the adult can go to jail for statuary rape. Parent’s need to be more involved in their child’s life, ask questions and being a friend to them is very important. According to bnet.com 15-44 women had a partner who were three or more years younger. 52% in age. 20% were 3-5 years older. 18% six years older. The pregnancy rate also was 3.7 times as hHelp on English paper?
You could mention that age difference is looked down upon much more in teen years, for example a 16 year old and a 20 year old may be ridiculed, but later in life e.g 40 and 45 is totally fine and no one gives a damn.



People constantly lie about their age, how is it possible to know that a girl isn't eighteen, when she claims she is and she passes as it.



The very fact that it is an issue suggests its non isolated and is taking place on a wide scale, the percentages mentioned prove that we as a population are the driving force behind such relationships.



Thats all i could think of, hope it helps, sorry if theres any repetition